tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3396785437411478888.post7354427809659814270..comments2023-04-15T11:55:15.475-04:00Comments on I Am Woman: Why Do Some Women Continue to Get Involved With Abusive Men?mxtodis123http://www.blogger.com/profile/13583200601379394225noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3396785437411478888.post-64934987709549161112014-01-19T11:50:57.538-05:002014-01-19T11:50:57.538-05:00I have a friend now that I am trying to get back b...I have a friend now that I am trying to get back but she says she is going to give her ex a second chance. This guy controlled and abused everything about her. Even forced sex out of her. I admit I continuously annoyed her with being insecure and assuming things. She told me several times to stop because I was assuming and accusing her of things for no reason. Because of this I feel she made me a better man by making me aware of these issues within me so I do work on them. I have a question though. I really love and care for this girl. Is there any way I can win her heart back and get her away from this guy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3396785437411478888.post-66416323157982735882013-01-20T07:23:17.184-05:002013-01-20T07:23:17.184-05:00If there is a 'need' to seek out or stay w...If there is a 'need' to seek out or stay with an abusive man it more than likely to be unconcious for the woman. Until she learns what that need is the decision to leave creates phycholoigcal distress espceially if children are involved if the man cotrols the finaces he more than likely control the whole situation. Think of it like the woman is under a spell! It takes a lot of courage to leave to start again alone with children and more than likely the woman has to fight against all which she knows. It is the best decison I ever made. <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3396785437411478888.post-57335246987261204382010-10-18T07:37:30.186-04:002010-10-18T07:37:30.186-04:00This was me some years ago...I'd been raised i...This was me some years ago...I'd been raised in an abusive home and somehow ended up with an abuser...I lived it for almost 6 years with the Father of my children until one day a switch just went off in me and I knew I had to escape and I did. I don't know where the courage came from except to say Mother God...I woke him up in the middle of the night holding a baseball bat over his head and told him if he ever hit me again, I'd kill him while he slept. He never hit me again, and I moved some 2400 miles away...<br />I cried for a year but somehow in all of that mess, I became. I became. When I look back on that time it is almost surreal...but here I am...and I have long been an advocate for Abused Women. It is so good to see you doing this here Mary...you just don't know how much I care about this very passionate subject! And give Kudos to all women who have survived this way of life...<br /><br />Many, many blessings!AkasaWolfSonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04128887650617351563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3396785437411478888.post-88466596627658026012010-10-18T02:59:11.682-04:002010-10-18T02:59:11.682-04:00This morning, the BF and I had almost the same dis...This morning, the BF and I had almost the same discussion, about why women from societies where decades were spent on gaining equal rights for women and stopping men from being abusive a****les would feel the need to throw themselves at guys from patriarchal cultures and be treated badly by them.<br /><br />*???*Diandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14570498251611083259noreply@blogger.com