A Tribute to Womanhood

Welcome to "I Am Woman"...a tribute to all those women who had the courage and perseverance to stand up and fight for their rights. Thanks to those who came before us we enjoy a freedom unknown to women not too long ago. But, sadly, in many parts of the world, women continue to be repressed. In fact, even in this country there are women living today under the threat of violence...completely controlled by a violent spouse. Some may make it; others won't. Hopefully, one day ALL women will be free. May that day come soon.


I Got Flowers Today

(The following is a powerful reminder of how devastating domestic violence can be.  Many of you probably have read this before;  it sends such a powerful message.  I only wish that all women would hear before it is too late)

I got flowers today.  It wasn't my birthday or any other special day.  We had our first argument last night, and he said a lot of cruel things that really hurt me.  I know he is sorry and didn't mean the things he said, because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today.  It wasn't our anniversary or any other special day.  Last night he threw me into a wall and started to choke me.  It seemed like a nightmare.  I couldn't believe it was real.  I woke this morning sore and bruised all over.  I know he must be sorry because he sent me flowers.

I got flowers today, and it wasn't Mother's Day or any other special day.  Last night, he beat me up again.  It was much worse than all the other times.  If I leave him what will I do?  How will I take care of my kids?  What about money?  I am afraid of him and scared to leave.  But I know he must be sorry because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today.  Today was a very special day.  It was the day of my funeral.  Last night he finally killed me.  He beat me to death.  If only I had gathered enough courage to leave him, I would not have gotten flowers today.

                        --Paulette Kelly--


  1. No, I had not read that before. You my angel are being the handmaiden and delivering something to me today that I needed so desperately for my daughter. This has such power. I want you to know I will post this take a stand button as soon as the "ugly" in my loved ones life is behind bars. Otherwise, I would be putting them in harms way by doing so. I have posted on my blogs about some of my grands issues and because he reads them, he is snarling and spitting and on the verge but social services is at this moment preparing a case against him.
    Thanks for this, it will reinforce the point with my lovely and frightened daughter.
    The Olde Bagg

  2. I've never read this before but it is very powerful. It makes me sad that woman are still being abused physically or emotionally.

  3. I remember loving Helen Reddy when I was young. Wow, whatever happened to her. Remember Lily Tomilin as "Edith Ann" singing this song? It was fantastic. I used to volunteer at a shelter and wish I had this back then. Thank you.